If I were to ask you the length of the Mississippi River, you probably wouldn’t know the exact number. So, if I said just put it between two numbers, you might have a better chance. You might be willing to wager a bit of money on it. In fact, it is a bet you could never lose. Just pick one and an obscenely large number, and it would be technically between those two. Yet when researchers did this as an experiment, that is not what happened. People gave way closer numbers even if doing so gave them a higher chance to lose. There is an interesting psychological effect here; we are quick to set lower limits than we have to. And it is also what we do with God. In Ephesians 3:20, Paul writes, “ Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us ,” God can do far more than we can imagine, far more than we think, far more than we are willing to ask. Neither God’s love no...
There is a quote from a tv series I watched years ago that has stayed with me over the years. “When one has been angry for a very long time, one gets used to it. And it becomes comfortable, like old leather. And finally, it becomes so familiar that one can’t remember feeling any other way.” Words from a fictional captain in a pretend world, but still containing a lot of truth In a world today that has mechanized outrage, it seems that there are those who are continually mad about something. There is always someone who has done wrong, something to rant about, something to frustrate and irk. Yet we seem very comfortable in it. The anger gives us a sense of high-mindedness. We are righteous in our anger. We care so much that we must bathe ourselves in disgust and outrage toward those in the wrong. So, we carry on the grudge. We continue to poke the wound. We wear our hate as a cloak around us, thinking it is a regal robe that suits us we...