Friends can make or break you. David’s friend Jonathan stood up for him and helped save his life. (1 st Samuel 19-20) David’s son Amnon had a friend who helped him to commit a terrible crime and set forth a series of events that almost destroyed the kingdom. (2 nd Samuel 13). The wrong kind of friend will ruin you (1 st Corinthians 15:33). A good friend can keep you from falling (Ecclesiastes 4:9). A man of too many friends comes to ruin, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24 So, make the right kind of friends. People who lift you up not bring you down. People who celebrate with you, not use you to so they can be happy. People who bring out the best in you, not the worst. People who will tell you the difficult truth, not those who spout easy lies. People who enhance your reputation, not bring it down. Friends can be our greatest asset or our biggest liability. It just depends on the kind of frie...
There is a bad tendency in our world today to look back in history and apply modern philosophy and thinking to the ancient world. It becomes very easy to judge those folks from our safer, easier, and protected perspective. Yet the truth is that they lived in different times and under different circumstances that we couldn’t really understand without being in their shoes. Before we pat ourselves on the back as being different and better, we might need to think more about how we’d be in those circumstances. I think this is Paul’s point in 1 st Corinthians 10. He tells those hundreds of years later that those in ancient Israel were in a different world, but were still a lot like them. He then goes on to show how they failed to live pleasing to God, warning us to heed the example. He then says, “ Now these things happened to them as an example, and they were written for our instruction, upon whom the ends of the ages have come. Therefore let him w...