Even a fool, when he keeps silent,
is considered wise; When he closes his lips, he is considered prudent.
Proverbs 17:28
You need to say
something. That’s what we think. A
person makes a jab. An accusation is hurled at us. We are questioned. It’s
human nature to want to defend ourselves, yet that can be at times the worst
thing we can do.
Years ago, I had a
mentor tell me “Never get in a mudsling contest with a pig, they love it and
you just end up getting dirty.” We don’t
have to respond to everything. Sometimes the best thing we can say is nothing
at all.
Lots of the talk we
get into is not near as productive as we think. Silence may we more effective than
we can imagine. Think about how Jesus used it (John 8:6, Mark 14:61). Maybe we
should learn to use it as well.
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