It’s clear in the
scripture that complaining and fault-finding are wrong (Jude 1:15. Philippians
2:14, 1st Corinthians 10:10, James 5:9, 1st Peter 4:9).
Yet, it does not seem to slow us down much.
Why is that?
I wonder if doesn’t
come down to something I have seen over the years. I’ve noticed that people most
often will find fault with you or with others when they are made cognizant of their
own failures. It is a reaction to our humbling, make someone else worse. If I feel
bad about “A” and I can point to another’s” B” then my “A” isn’t’ as bad. It is
a defense mechanism against our pressing conscience. As long as we can “share
the blame” it gives us an excuse to not have to make a change.
Maybe that is why it
is so condemned in scripture. As Jesus talked about in Matthew 7, we think seeing
the speck solves having the plank. It doesn’t. Rather than seeking to justify
our actions let's work to fix them.
Next time you are
tempted to find fault or complain, check your thinking. Is this about what they
are doing or maybe it’s me I need to fix?
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